Practical ◊ How To Connect
Weather you're scrambling last minute to figure it out, or you're dreaming over a long time to hold a vision — this is the most practical part of the website. Don't forget to scroll down to the fee structure after the basic information. My availability is more aptly described within the descriptions of the rates.
Basics
◊☎️ How To Contact Me — Texting Only (Email Additional)
Unfortunately I am not able to take phone calls due to unwanted conversations styles mainly, but it's also not as practical — so, texting only at (236) 516-L0VE(5083). You can't set up a visit without providing a usable texting number which I can rely on for you. Emails are valued, but I don't get a sound-based notification unless it's a text, so it's not a great way to get a quick response. That said, some people like more wordy correspondence by email, and I love that too :)) My email is see.transparen@gmail.com ))
◊❤️🔥 How To Introduce Yourself By Text
Please text me with your first name and your age (and how you'd like to connect or any questions). Please don't share your skin color, racial background or nationality — also please don't send photos of yourself. What matters to me is who you are on the inside 💘 )))))) Ideally, it's most time efficient for short-notice inquiries if you have completed my screening form found at this link. This takes about 15 minutes and can be done online, or by text ))
I appreciate thoughtful, introductory, and courteous messages — but anything goes. I didn't used to like "Hi" texts, but now I don't mind them at all 😂😂. Please note : Unsolicited explicit images are not really appreciated except for a laugh — and you will not be receiving any response.
◊🔑 How My Availability And Hours Work
I no longer have set work hours. Sometimes my sleep patterns shift more into very early mornings, other times more into later nights. On the days I plan to work : Whenever I naturally wake up, I spend 2-3 hours on hygiene, glamming up and tidying the place to be ready to host. By the way, this hygiene and glam keeps getting touched up throughout the day. Once that's done, I'm available with 30 mins notice for those who have completed my screening — and I start checking my work phone and responding. Usually when my last, approaching bed-time snack is eaten, I start packing up for the night and no longer take texts.
◊🏡 I Will Be Hosting Our First Visit (I Cannot Travel To You)
Our first meeting will always take place at my home. In future visits, I will not be comfortable travelling to your home — it will have to be a major hotel in the Vancouver area. There will be a $50 travel fee for that.
◊🪞 Feel Free To Confirm In Advance If I Will Likely Be On Call Later
I sometimes know that I have other plans in the coming days, or at a certain time. Even if you can't reserve the time with me in advance through special arrangements (as explained in my rates) I'm still always pleased to let you know how things are likely going to be going. The only problem is, I never really know for sure unless you are reserving the time in advance.
◊💸 Preferences of Payment Method
Some people prefer to pay by e-transfer when they arrive. Personally, I'm not a fan of that, as I find the logistical effort bleeds into our time and takes away from comfortably connecting — especially when e-transfers take a while to go through. Of course, nothing can proceed until I have fully received the transfer. Some banks send them instantly, others are hit and miss. However, I understand if it's necessary. My e-transfer email is unity.life.mystery.school@gmail.com ))
◊😎 My Screening Process
Once you've successfully completed my 15 minute screening process found at this link, I'll only need 30 minutes notice at the times I'm available )) I can guide you through the whole thing when I'm available to answer, or it also be done online whenever's good for you. Either way, you'll need to listen to the 11 minute introductory audio and record the numbers you hear in there, to send to me. For those in a rush, it's best to get the audio out of the way in advance ))
◊💎 Proving I Am Real (Not a Scam or a Fake)
You should be able to see that I'm a good person from this website (especially the healing section) — bad people aren't too good at creative writing of this beautiful nature )) Also, there's no way a scammer could or would fake my art website which is linked from the navigation bar. I'm looking for people who have basic discernment at least that good, to be able to tell that I'm not a horrible person in secret, assuming the person you text is the same one who created this beautiful presentation and all this amazing art ))
But sometimes hackers can steal people's ads from certain platforms and change the phone numbers, so that a good person's beautifully created and real-looking ad is being used by a scammer to another number. If this worries you, skip the online screening process and text me without mentioning that part. I will force you by text to go through that time consuming process before I can serve you — and a scammer would never do that. They just want your money as fast as possible.
Also, this website has better security from hacking, as do most high level website building platforms. So usually what you'll see when an ad has been hacked is a different phone number on the ad than on the website. You can check that the number is the same on both — It is highly unlikely that a hacker could hijack both.
◊🗓 What To Expect During The Time
When you arrive, I’ll receive the booking fee and we’ll sit down to chat for 5–10 minutes, or longer if you wish. If you’d like to discuss time extensions at that point, you’re welcome to do so. Afterward, you’ll enjoy a quick shower while I get ready. From there, we’ll settle into the time together at a relaxed and unhurried pace. Please see the rates section for more details.
◊💐 If You Would Like To Bring A Gift Or Drink
Extra presents are not at all expected, but this is a beautiful way to express your appreciation and love )) Thank you !! ◊💘💘 )) Right now I'm only interested in drinking Henessey, because it's a lower calorie drink which really hits the spot. I'll probably always be fine with being surprised by Henessey — but just incase, maybe better double check that I'm even drinking at all right now. I also love flowers, which are so my favourite of a regular, normally priced gift. Please don't be bashful about tiny, cute or handmade bouquets. Your bouquet will be anonymously posted here unless you otherwise specify that a first name is OK to speak of. For the generous types, anyone who would like to give something more expensive, I'd really appreciate a gift certificate to Dita Von Teese Lingerie. Or another thing is, you can join my Patreon to help contribute to my lingerie addiction that way. All proceeds will go towards it.
Fee Structure
Based on experience, I've smoothed my rates to a fine artform. I'm so excited to offer you all these descriptions, which also explain more about my availability and what to expect )) ◊💖❤️🔥
$250 Base Rate ◊💖 Short-Notice Booking Fee (Cash On Arrival)
When I am available, I only need 30 minutes notice, once you've already taken my 15 minute screening process. That said, I try to meet on the hour or the half-hour if that works for you, as this helps me keep track of the time in my head more easily. When you arrive, seeing the person and place all verified as expected, you can pay $250 for the booking. This is not in exchange for time, but I'm not at all comfortable kicking you out or shutting down the intimacy in any way until an hour has passed. And I've heard of people who shut down the intimacy on their friends before the hour — I just can't relate to that perspective. Stay the whole hour with love and joy of deepening the connection in any way that feels right, or leave anytime without worrying you are impolite ))
$250 Base Rate ◊🔑 Advance Reservation Booking Fee
For those who are driving in from more than 30 minutes away or coming into town during a brief and precious window of time — when you need a rock solid commitment from me in advance of the 30 minute short notice window : Unfortunately, I must ask for the $250 booking fee to be e-transferred in advance to secure the reservation.
I can't afford to give my whole life away — turning away other opportunties to keep a promise, revolving my schedule around the promised future time — when I get so many brutal cancellations and no-shows. It's honestly been breaking my spirit to do that for people for 4 years, when despite anything I do to test compatibility and commitment based on vibe and communication, I never can really know if they are going to show up. It's too much — some people enjoy making appointments they have zero intention of keeping, just for the thrill :(( This is causing a paranoid complex about even the nicest sounding people in my mind ... which affects my heart.
I can't advise you as to weather it's the right thing to act that way. I only know the absolute truth from my own experience — I will be there. If you are sure you feel comfortable with this, I will be grateful for your act of trust and support. I'll put more time into getting ready, doing everything to make sure I'm looking and feeling all charged up with anticipation and super self-nurturing, harmonious frequencies to optimize the emotional resonance of our upcoming visit ))
$100 ◊💝 30 min Extension Rate Beyond 1 Hour (Cash or Transfer Anytime)
In any meeting there is always a quick 5-10 min chat when you arrive, to support me to ground in and know who you are and what I should be aware of before we move forward. Plus of course, "How are you!?". But conversation is an artform which shouldn't feel rushed ideally. I hate those rushed, awkward convos when you don't feel that relaxed yet. If you could use a more comfortable chat, you should pay this 30 min extension fee when you arrive. Thank you - that really helps with atmosphere and my needs, when I'm struggling to get by on like $4,000 a month (how does that compare with you?) ))
I'm always hoping you'll stay for at least 90 mins, if not 2 hours if that's definitely what you feel is right for you. I mean, whatever is definitely best for you in your truth is honestly what's best for me because I'm pensive to hope that you felt right about everything )) And ideally even longer is better, say just cause we kept comfortably extending — or with a drink or an outing or snacks or a light (or extravagent if planned in advance) meal if that's in the flow. I don't get ancy about your presence in the home. I prefer continuing to deepen in more. That brings me more joy.
Happy Hour $100 ◊❤️🔥 1hr Extension Rate After 3 Hours
There is a 50% discount on extensions once it's going beyond 3 hours if you reserve the time and pay in advance. This allows us to start things off with a relaxed meal — and Happy Hour doesn't necessarily refer to drinking, as this will depend on both of our current intricacies about alcohol choices. This way to do things leads us into a much more memorable occasion for us to remember and appreciate ))))))
Dreamtime $450 Extension Bundle ◊❤️🔥🌈 After 6 Hours, Overnight Until Breakfast
Wouldn't it be amazing if we both had the same dream at the same time while sleeping, or we actually had compatible dreams? Can you imagine — what if our two dreams were designed to intertwine or lock in symbolically with each other??!!
Once we've reached the bliss and/or exhaustion state of a 6 hour journey, you're welcome to change the story on where you're going after this with an extension. This is not about the time but just the overnight to whatever's natural in a morning coffee or even breakfast if we feel up to it. I have nice breakfast food here, or whatever you like. In fact, I eat breakfast for lunch and dinner all the time — it's my specialty. I always have Vega and I'm a protein waffle expert.
That all said, of course I prefer this to be reserved and all paid in advance for the ideal dream occeasion to look forward to — and if you do, I'll be sure to be more ready.
For our first meeting, I don't like hotels. I feel insecure in another place aside from my home when we're new to each other. But once we've established a bond, I enjoy evolving my relationship with the hotel experience through a shared adventure. That all said, as much as a hotel is so hyper sanitized, sanitization really is overrated these days and I think my home is better than a hotel for weary travellers. It's a really cute, tidy, respectful place — in fact, it's my universe ))
I never know until the time arrives if I'm going to be feeling that "My sleep is so very important to me" feeling, or not even (to be honest). I tend to feel more responsive when someone is in my home, and this can effect me during sleep hours, so please don't expect to be entertained past a certain comfortable wind-down / relax time. The whole plan to just party all night will never appeal to me.
VIP Discount Bundle ◊💘💸 Continual Bestie Rates
Sometimes people have a savings or they catch a windfall, and while knowing their regular expenses are covered, they want to invest into me and suport me with some larger sum they have available right now all paid in advance — with the hopes of a great ongoing progression of developing rapore over time, with multiple visits )) If we can be besties this way, and you are real about wanting to emotionally connect — not as an item but as real true friends who love each other like honest besties — you and I are going to get along.
For anyone confident with the trust this requires, who feels we'd be a fit, please know I'll be more than grateful for the boost. In return, I'll offer $50 off from every visit.
Plus also, with that arranged, I'm starting to feel very generous about how much time we spend having dinner (or brunch / lunch) together, out at a restaurant first before we proceed from there. I normally assume I have to keep this outing to like 90 minutes to respect your investment. But if I'm eating at a restaurant, I want to enjoy myself with no time limit — especially when we're just feeling it out with our drinks. This can get crazy — I've easily escalated quite comfortably long beyond a 2 hour dinner. So I won't charge you for that extra time beyond 90 minutes when we're at a restaurant, for a bestie rate ))
But also, once we've been doing this for a long, long time — I'm starting to feel bad for charging you for any time spent having dinner. Most people offer to pay for dinner, and I just feel horrible if you're paying for dinner, and all this, and I'm charging you a penny for that time.
