Here's What I'm Comfortable With

When you pass my 15 minute screening, I know I will be comfortable with my consent list during our time. I've reached that certainty through many years of experience with this, combined with much meditation, introspecive self-searching and personal healing )) Some boundaries are featured separately through a button )) Also, don't forget to scroll further down for my longer boundaries list :))

More Boundaries

Do you ever feel awkward or nervous that I might be upset at you — Like not text you back, not want to see you again? Well, I'm very happy to offer these rules so that you can be confident that our time together will go well :)) 

◊💎 Age ◊ You Must Be At Least 22 Years Old & No Hearing Issues


You must be 22 years old or more. That's because the drinking age in USA is 21, and though we are not in USA, that's largely considered a vulnerable age for high risk decision making. High risk decision making is very important to avoid until you are through the life initiations and experiences of these early ages. Take one step at a time. 

And as for the elders, please check in with me first to let me know if severe aging is a problem in some way, such as major fragility. Deafness is the most serious issue. People with hearing disabilities are definitely prohibited from visiting. 

◊💖 Polite & Gentlemanly Tone of Speech Is Required


It's very important to behave as such a polite gentleman, so that I am able to discern who's a good guy and who I should ignore. I will really try to tune in and feel it out so that I'm not misreading you, but the simple rule of thumb is to just try to be on your best behaviour. I'm sure that would work. If you forget to behave as a gentleman, I can be understanding — but it's dicey, because there's a chance I might be turned off and stop responding to you.

◊🖤 Repeatedly Requesting Something I've Said No To


Anyone who repeats a request after I have clearly siad no will no longer receive any further response by text. If this happens during our time together, it is pretty unlikely that I will be willing to see you again. It's OK to ask me why the answer is no, but not to request it again. This has nothing to do with what the request is — it's because you are showing that you have boundary issues and that's a concern. 

◊🖤 Rough Physical Behaviour


I do not tolerate rough physical behaviour well — it is not my idea of fun and this will make me uncomfortable. I will let you know if I feel you are being rough, but some things should be effortless to figure out without me having to say anything. Anyone who has a tendency of this kind will not be invited back. 

◊🖤 Requests or Advice on My Appearance (Body Weight, Glam, Outfits etc)


A sign of respect towards a person is to trust them on the basics : How to dress themselves, grooming, etc. should be the most obvious thing you can trust someone to do for themselves. We are adults and we need to really respect each other's personal choices. But also body weight, how I do my makeup, and the aesthetic design of my appearance. These are sensitive choices which are autonomous and empowered from within. For that reason, I really dislike it when you ask me to voice my preferences for these items about yourself — I don't want to give you advice, for my sake or anything — you can do it.

◊💖 What Kinds of Requests Are OK?


It's definitely OK with me if you'd like to pick out your favourite of the Dita Von Teese Lingerie that you have seen modelled in my photos, and request that. Also, if you'd like to request that I don't wear chemical perfumes or body sprays, lotions etc, that's fine. But with all these requests, I can't guarantee that I'll be able to fulfill them. I will respond and let you know if it's possible. 

◊🖤 Giving Me Advice or Disputing How I Run My Business


I'm a self-empowered, independent boss-babe, and I set the rules of my own bizness. That's a wonderful thing about me, something which helps you know I'm safe and sound. I'm definitely the only one who could know what's best for my business. It's not a standard business model where other general business models you know of should apply here ))

◊🖤 Hinting or Discussing My Services on Instagram


I'm happy to open my instagram to the world through here, but that is not a place to discuss what I offer here .... not even hinting )) It's socially taboo and it's a matter of privacy. If you do this, you will be restricted on instagram as soon as possible, and I will be offended.