MY MOST RECOMMENDED BOOK

For those already experiencing this phenomenon naturally but too quickly, this will help you prolong the joyful process with so much more control. For those already there but finding it draining and tiring (physically and psychologically or emotionally) after the fact, this will completely resolve that sense of being a drained battery that no longer feels the same loving and affectionate emotions afterwards. Don't worry : I never take that personally. But of course for those drained batteries who are not already experiencing the title of this book, you're going to learn how (if that's something that excites you). Long dreamy 4 hour and 5 hour journies of mindblowing passion are no more than a fantasy to some, but for others it's just a matter of fitting it into the schedule. It's a venture. 

In my opinion, it is highly likely that the most creative, wise-hearted, powerfully resourceful and influential men in the world have certainly read and explored this venture. In my mind it's assumed that the types of men who strike me as God-like are all long ago well versed in this. Secrets of the Gods — they seem resourceful in general, so ..... what types of things have they found?! Haha. This book equals male empowerment.

There is no chance I ever judge anyone for not having gotten into this. That's the furthest thing from my mind, I assure you. Judgement, to me, is so toxic and opposite to wellbeing and true intimacy. But with that said, I encounter so many men who tell me that they feel pathetic. Now, I think quite often that whole routine "I'm so pathetic, I have no empowerment" is a little bit of an everyday trick to code yourself in secrecy in order to get less unwanted attention and less pressure and unreasonable expectations put on you. And I completely understand that it's OK to play that game of pretending to be small. I think when self-help coaches say things like "Stop playing small", all they mean is just as a reminder sometimes when pretending to be "pathetic" has occasionally fooled even yourself. They don't mean that you can't be low key about yourself as a little trickster routine just to surf by unnoticed more easily. But occasionally I do meet men who it seems honestly have slipped way past that degree and fooled themselves about their empowerment so much that they are more earnestly wrestling with self-esteem and stressing things like their performance enough to say : "This needs to stop".

If you're feeling in that place where "This needs to stop" with constant self-shaming and worry-based stresses about your performance, I can't tell you enough how much this book would help. It certainly does take practice, and this kind of discipline and meditation (often required alone) is more than difficult for some people. However, the book will guide you through it so nicely, and it's comparable to exercising, meditating or doing yoga more often. We all know we should be doing it more, and if we feel bad about ourselves about that, it's just about pep talking ourselves occasionally and getting back on track. The amount of challenge this presents is not a higher source of stress beyond that type of exercise challenge etc. And it can be unattainable for some in high stress life situations, but at least it's nice to know that's the only thing wrong. At least with this book you know, there's nothing wrong with you personally as a human being but only with your lifestyle and how much stress you're under.